Arduino MKR WAN 1300

It’s technically possible, as you can do whatever you want after receiving a downlink. But especially given the pin names like “siren” you probably want something different: How can i remotely control a siren?

That said, unstested, it could be as simple as:

if (i > 0) {
  // Parse 8 boolean flags from single byte, using bitwise AND with
  // patterns such as B00000001, B00000010, ..., B10000000:
  bool flag0 = (rcv[0] & 1<<0) > 0;
  bool flag1 = (rcv[0] & 1<<1) > 0;
  bool flag2 = (rcv[0] & 1<<2) > 0;
  // or:
  bool flag3 = (rcv[0] & B00001000) > 0;
  bool flag4 = (rcv[0] & B00010000) > 0;
  bool flag5 = (rcv[0] & B00100000) > 0;
  // or:
  bool flag6 = (bitRead(rcv[0], 6) == 1);
  bool flag7 = (bitRead(rcv[0], 7) == 1);

  // Not a recommended LoRaWAN use case
  digitalWrite(flash, flag0 ? HIGH : LOW);
  digitalWrite(siren, flag1 ? HIGH : LOW);
}

See Working with bytes.

(As for your earlier if(cont == 'exact message I send from ttn') note that LoRaWAN application data is encrypted, so you don’t need to be afraid that just anyone can send a downlink to your device.)